I’ve decided for this post I wanted to ask some of my family members some of their thoughts and memories of certain dishes they experienced through their years. I’ve sent out a few emails and was happy to read some of the replies i received. As I keep getting replies I will add to this post. We’ll start out with my mother, Dollie, my Aunt Mary, then my Grandmother, Peggy, who I call Memama, then with my uncle Jim.
Dollie Dantz (Mother)
I have several things I liked to eat growing up ……My dad had built a large concrete block barbecue pit with a rack for cooking and he used to charcoal Delmonico steaks with hickory chips and tons of butter, ah the best steak you would ever eat along with baked potatoes baked in the oven, not in a microwave (which we had no idea what that was at that time.)
Several things that Mama made were her Ham Pies with the flakiest crust, the fried Pork Kidneys in gravy eaten over bread. I remember every time that Mama would bake a cake or cookies, I would make sure the bowls with all that raw egg and batter was licked clean. I wouldn’t dream of doing that now. Mama’s cheese straws were the absolute best and you couldn’t eat just 1 or 2, you couldn’t stay out of them. I have very fond memories of being in the kitchen when Daddy would pop popcorn on top of the stove. I have yet to duplicate his expertise.
The whole family also used to get together and have fish fries with the fish that we used to catch out of Lake Greenwood. Fried Catfish, bream, crappie, French fries, and oh the hush puppies. That was the best.
While my brother was still at home, we would take care of the clean up of the dishes after supper and I would have to escape the rolled up wet towel snapping at my legs. He thought he was having a great time, me on the other hand, not so great time, but good memories.
A few of my favorite things to eat now would be fried venison steak, which I eat on a limited basis, fried okra has always been a favorite, also limited hence the word “fried”. Anything grilled, no matter what it may be, is always a good thing. I recently visited Hendersonville, NC and ate at a restaurant that served a grilled Romaine lettuce drizzled with a Caesar type dressing…..absolutely delicious and I hope to try my hand at that soon.
Mary Welborn (Aunt)
1.) As a child what was your favorite thing to eat
I don’t recall having one specific thing as a favorite. (My mother may know differently!) But — some of the things that I remember as being favorites were: chocolate cake with chocolate icing (the gooier, the better!); my grandmother’s banana cream pie (she made it from scratch and it was oh, so yummy!); biscuits made from scratch by the lady who used to live next door when I was a child, Edna Smith (these were melt in your mouth good and needed NO butter. I have never tasted one to compare); Edna also made homemade muscadine jelly that was awesome (put that on her biscuits and you had gone to heaven). Butter cookies!! It would be difficult to even begin to count the number of these we have made through the years at Christmastime. These are rolled, cookie-cutter cookies and are wonderful! Take note that none of my favorites were actually healthy and nutritious fare!
2.) What’s your favorite thing now? Why is it different if it’s changed?
I think one of my most favorite foods now is a Flo’s Filet Mignon from Longhorn — there’s nothing better! This is different from when I was a child because first of all, there were no Longhorn Restaurants around then, or at least none near where we lived. I also love Dove chocolate candy — too much! This was also not around when I was a child. With the exception of the butter cookies which we STILL make at Christmas every year as one of our family traditions, my childhood favorites became only wonderful memories when each of these wonderful cooks passed away.
3.) What are some of your memories growing up? With food and in the kitchen?
I remember when I got old enough to help out in the kitchen, it was always my job to peel and cook potatoes for dinner as well as make the tea (for iced sweet tea — I grew up in the South, you know) with loose tea leaves. I still have a Mary Alden’s Cookbook for Children that I received when I was most likely about 10 years old. Mama and I made many, many batches of the oatmeal chocolate chip cookies from the recipe in that cookbook. I still have the book. Other duties in the kitchen included setting the table, helping clear the table, and drying the dishes as Mama washed them – no dishwasher back in the day — and Mama and I could zip through a whole meal’s worth of dishes and pots/pans in no time!
If there’s anything else you’d like to add about southern cuisine and even some recipes that would be awesome!
My dad (your granddad) used to own a restaurant in Laurens, SC, called The Hub. I’m attaching a couple of recipes in which the quantities have been modified for home preparation that you might enjoy. Daddy used both of these recipes at The Hub — one for hot dog chili, and one for barbecue hash. The butter cookie recipe is also attached in case you want to start a tradition of your own!
HOT DOG CHILI
This recipe has been converted by my mom from the original recipe my dad used at The Hub Drive-In in the 1950’s.
- 1 lb. Lean Ground Beef
- 3 Tablespoons Worcestershire Sauce
- 2 Tablespoons (level) Prepared Mustard
- 3 Tablespoons Ketchup
- 1 Tablespoon Chili Powder
- Salt
Cook ground beef in small amount of water. Salt to taste. Drain excess water after cooking. Add remaining ingredients and mix well. Makes approximately 12 servings. Freezes well.
~~Submitted by Mary Potts Welborn
CROCK-POT BARBECUE HASH
This recipe has been converted by my mom from the original recipe my dad used at The Hub Drive-In in the 1950’s.
- 3 lbs. extra lean pork (Butt)
- 3 lbs. extra lean stew beef
- 3 Tablespoons Worcestershire
- 3 Tablespoons mustard (prepared)
- 3 Tablespoons ketchup
- 2 Tablespoons salt
- Dash hot sauce
Cut up and salt meat. Cook at least 12 hours in crock-pot on low. Pour into pan and beat with potato masher. Pick out scraps (fat, skin, etc.) with tongs. Season with Worcestershire, ketchup, mustard and hot sauce. NOTE: Do not pour off juices from meat after cooking. Small amount of water may have to be added if consistency of hash is too dry. Especially good served with barbecue sauce on toasted hamburger buns or served over rice. Makes approximately 30 servings. Freezes well.
~~Submitted by Mary Potts Welborn
BUTTER COOKIES
Cream ½ lb butter and 1-cup sugar together. Add 2 eggs and 1-teaspoon vanilla. Beat till fluffy. Sift 3 ½ cups plain flour and 1-teaspoon salt and add to mixture. Sift plain four on countertop and roll dough. Place on foil-covered sheet, and bake 10 minutes @ 350°. Makes approximately 9 dozen cookies, depending on size. NOTE: 5-pound bag of flour plus a 2-pound bag of flour will equal 4+ batches.
2 cookies = 1 point
Peggy Burns (Grandmother)
1.) As a child what was your favorite thing to eat
My grandmother’s fried chicken, chicken gravy and cornbread.
2.) What’s your favorite thing now? Why is it different if it’s changed?
Mostly seafood–don’t eat much fried food, and little meat because of my cholesterol and blood pressure. But that doesn’t mean I wouldn’t love to!
3.) What are some of your memories growing up? With food and in the kitchen?
Most of what we ate came from a HUGE garden at my grandmother’s house, which my dad helped to work. She canned and preserved everything she possibly could. I especially liked the pickled beans and pickled beets. We bought very little from the grocery store. You must remember that I wasn’t raised in the deep south. I moved here after I was married, so that’s when I learned about collard greens, black-eyed peas, hush puppies, grits, fish camps and barbecue! They all became instant favorites. We ate greens when I was little, but it was kale, mustard greens, turnip greens, dandelion, Creasy greens and wild greens. I still cook my grits the old fashion way–no instant grits for me.
If there’s anything else you’d like to add about southern cuisine and even some recipes that would be awesome!
I’ve searched for and just now found what I was looking for–two recipes that are from MY grandmother, and in her handwriting. This would be your great-great- grandmother, and it’s an example of how they wrote recipes then. These are both very, very delicious. I’m sure you’d want to substitute in the doughnut recipe!!!!!!! I’m writing this just as she wrote it.
Doughnuts
- 2 eggs well beaten. Add
- 2 cups of sugar and 2 tablespoons lard, beating well.
- 1 cup buttermilk
- 4 level cuts flour with
- 1 scant teaspoon soda
- 1 teaspoon baking powder
- 1/2 teaspoon salt, all sifted in flour.
- Add flavoring, roll, cut, and fry in hot lard with a pinch of salt in it.
Applesauce Cake
- 2/3 cup butter or shortening
- 1 1/2 cups sugar
- 3 cups flour
- 1 1/2 cups applesauce
- 1 or more cups stewed raisins
- 2 teaspoons soda
- 1 teaspoon salt
- 1 or more cups walnuts
- 1 teaspoon each cinnamon, allspice, nutmeg, cloves, ginger
There are no directions as to pans or oven temp or time so I guess you just have to wing it. I would use a bundt pan and bake it for at least an hour at 300 or 325.
Jim Coates (Uncle)
1.) As a child what was your favorite thing to eat
Mom’s fried venison with rice and gravy – don’t forget the fried okra and creamed corn.
2.) What’s your favorite thing now? Why is it different if it’s changed?
Crazy Noodle – don’t forget the fish sauce and Thai basil.
3.) What are some of your memories growing up? With food and in the kitchen?
Hanging out with Mom in the kitchen. She was always cleaning venison or catfish and preparing them for the freezer. I also have a photograph of me at five years old standing on a stool leaning over a stove stirring what I imagine was peanut butter fudge, because I loved it and Mom made it frequently.

If there’s anything else you’d like to add about southern cuisine and even some recipes that would be awesome!
Dad’s (my Grandfather, Papa) Catfish Stew was legendary in the Greenville area of South Carolina.
Dad’s Catfish Stew
- 20 lbs. potatoes
- 15 lbs. onions
- 1 6×6” slab of fatback
- 2 gals. Whole milk
- 2 lbs. butter
- 3 cans cream corn
- 3 cans whole kernel corn
- 15 lbs. cooked de-boned catfish
- Salt
- Pepper
- Powdered potatoes as needed to thicken
Peel and dice potatoes and onions and cover with water in pot. Bring to boil and cook with fatback until potatoes are cooked through and begin to break down. Stir constantly. Stir in whole milk, butter, and corn and bring back up to a boil, stirring constantly. Stir in catfish. Salt and pepper to taste. Finish by adding powdered potatoes one cup at a time until desired thickness is achieved. Continue to stir until pot cools.
Serves 60 – 80
Serve with:
- White bread
- Saltines
- Ketchup
- Sweet iced tea